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Handling Sibling Conflict

How can I mediate fights between my two daughters? They are five and eight years old, and I would love to be as balanced as I can and not be nicer to one than the other.

—Claudia, Italy

Dear Claudia,

Discipline both, unless you know who started the fight. Then discipline her. Isn’t it a wonder how past-life ill will or resentment will show up in the most unexpected ways? Ideally, they will work through their differences before they reach adulthood.

Be sure to sing HU together.